Getting our Priorities Right
In the pursuit of goodness it is easy to become side-tracked by worthwhile acts, which may deceptively be shifting your focus from more important acts.
How valuable is growing a beard when you are not acquiring your earnings in a halal way? Or praying in the front row when you are treating your wife badly? Or performing tarawih prayers but then missing fajr? Understanding the value of what is important, means we can build strong foundations and then embellish the structure. Rather than risk beautifying a crumbly edifice. The scholar Imam Muhasibi said that the people who are seeking the akhirah are of two kinds:- People of justice - adl
- People of virtues - fadl
- To perform the obligations (e.g. fasting and salah)
- To seek the obligations which are required.
- The path to adl is tariqul istiqama. (the middle path that is siratal mustaqeem) by fulfilling obligations.
- The path for fadl is through extra actions (talab az ziyada)g. nawafil which are not obligatory.
Prioritisation – the foundation (faraid) and the decoration (nawafil)
It is incumbent on everyone to know their obligations, but not to know the extras. Whereas every voluntary action is not incumbent on the servant to do or to know. You must be careful not to neglect the obligations in pursuit of the optional acts of goodness. For example, performing many nawafil and then missing the faraid. The faraid is the foundation and the nawafil is the decoration. So don’t waste your time on the nawafil when you have not fulfilled your obligations. This is prioritisation. You are not accountable for the extras, but you are accountable for not fulfilling your obligations. Performing adl provides an excuse for not fulfilling the fadl. But being preoccupied by the fadl and failing to fulfil the adl is to be deceived. It is a sign that you are following your own whims and desires, perhaps for the sake of gratifying your ego, as it brings you praise in the community.Having adl - How do we reach that level?
You cannot attain the station of adl unless you have three khisaal, (criteria):- Al ilm – Knowledge
- Al amal – Action
- Sabr – Patience